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TO READ: A busy mama's reading list

Awhile back, and for a good many months, I was actually getting to read a fair bit.  Real books, I mean, not just snippets from magazines or all the wonderful bloggy goodness I get sucked into on the web.  The stars aligned with a combo of my routine of nursing the babies down (and them needing some time to get settled, so I was there for awhile), their need for two naps a day, in daylight hours (bedtime its too dark to read so I listen or play with my iPod).   

Elsie and Delia are actually really sweet when its bedtime, and I like to chat and cuddle and play with them a bit first.  Even though I have both of them there, tandem nursing, I find this is great one-on-one time.  Its hard to explain, because obviously the other twin is always right there listening/watching, but they are amazingly great at just chilling and nursing or whatever while I interact with the other.  Its sweet.  But after a few minutes of talking and interacting, I find its good to sort of "check out" mentally so that they get the message its time to sleep, and that is where I get my reading in.  Yahoo!  

But lately, I am finding less and less time to read!  Bummer!  I think its because we've dropped a nap (there goes 20 or so minutes of reading time!)  and that they are needing to nurse less (they actually rarely fall asleep nursing now) -- so after 10 minutes or so at nap and bedtime I really ought to just put them in their cribs. Waaaah!  No more forced reading time!  I realize this is a silly complaint -- I should just go sit down and read with my newfound spare time!  But once I am out of the chair and other things are calling, its easy to choose something else to do.  Ah well.  

So lately the books have been stacking up!  I really need to get cracking!  Here is a list of what's on my "to-read" pile (I don't own ALL of these, but the top 6-7 I do).   Not a ton of heavy literature, or much literature at all, I'm afraid!  I'm still finding I mostly want to plow through parenting books when I find the time....


Kristin's to-read book list



One and the Same: My Life as an Identical Twin and What I've Learned about Everyone's Struggle to Be Singular

Positive Discipline: The First Three Years: From Infant to Toddler--Laying the Foundation for Raising a Capable, Confident Child

Positive Discipline for Preschoolers: For Their Early Years - Raising Children Who Are Responsible, Respectful, and Resourceful

The Bitch in the House: 26 Women Tell the Truth About Sex, Solitude, Work, Motherhood, and Marriage

Buddhism for Mothers: A Calm Approach to Caring for Yourself and Your Children

Simplify Your Life: 100 Ways to Slow Down and Enjoy the Things That Really Matter

The Three-Martini Playdate: A Practical Guide to Happy Parenting

Hungry Monkey: A Food-Loving Father's Quest to Raise an Adventurous Eater

Playing Smart: The Family Guide to Enriching, Offbeat Learning Activities for Ages 4 to 14

Apartment Therapy: The Eight-Step Home Cure

Artisan Bread in Five Minutes a Day: The Discovery That Revolutionizes Home Baking

Animal, Vegetable, Miracle: A Year of Food Life

Peaceful Parents, Peaceful Kids: Practical Ways to Create a Calm and Happy Home

59 Seconds: Think a Little, Change a Lot

The Comforts of a Muddy Saturday

Stones into Schools: Promoting Peace with Books, Not Bombs, in Afghanistan and Pakistan

Feeding the Whole Family: Whole Foods Recipes for Babies, Young Children and Their Parents

Raising Children Compassionately: Parenting the Nonviolent Communication Way

Connection Parenting: Parenting Through Connection Instead of Coercion, Through Love Instead of Fear

Her Fearful Symmetry

Protecting the Gift: Keeping Children and Teenagers Safe

The Emotional Life of the Toddler

Unconditional Parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason

There Is No Me Without You: One Woman's Odyssey to Rescue Africa's Children



Kristin Hutchinson's favorite books ยป


 

Hey, if any of you are also Goodreads users (and not already on my friends list), let me know -- I'd love to see what you are reading! Many of the books on my list are from the suggestions of other friends. So many books, so little time!

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Wow, this is a great list! Many books I really need to read. I have just recently started making time for myself to read AND got onto Goodreads (or rather I signed up long ago but never did anything with it until now). I will look you up on there and friend you!

Posted by Joanne on January 12, 2010 at 01:35 PM PST #

I could have written this post! Thanks to the handy dandy EZ Twin Nursing pillow, I used to get a serious amount of reading done while the Turtles nursed. (Like the entire Twilight Saga serious. Hey, I'm not proud.) But, it seems that now that they are much more efficient and not likely to doze off, I can barely get through an issue of Real Simple.

One day, I hope to check out the books that you have listed. I did read Animal, Vegetable, Miracle and give it an A+ and also have made many a loaf of bread in 5 minutes a day (also an A).

Good luck!

Posted by Mama Mama Quite Contrary on January 12, 2010 at 04:26 PM PST #

I followed you here from a comment you posted at HDYDI.com. Thanks so much for the tips on potty training. I took your advice about naked time and we've been doing okay. Some successes, lots of clean-ups, but I know we'll get there eventually.

I love this list of books you've compiled. I've got a few of them on my to-read list as well and may add a few more from your list (such interesting titles). I've been saying that I need to make more time for reading since forever. I'm impressed that you've done so well for so long.

Posted by reanbean on January 19, 2010 at 08:06 PM PST #

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